A young child may help himself to candy from an open container in a store. It is understandable as he hasn’t yet learned the concept of stealing. A wise parent explains why stealing is wrong, accompanies him to return the candy, and guides him in apologizing to the sales person.Adults may steal a different kind of candy without even realizing it. Exodus 20:15 (NIV) is clear in stating, “You shall not steal.” This commandment does not only pertain to things we can see or touch. Exodus 23:1 (MSG) warns us “Don’t pass on malicious gossip.”Gossiping is actually stealing a person’s good name. Slander is akin to stealing one’s belongings. We wouldn’t think of stealing someone’s car; but when we spread rumors, we’re stealing something of much greater value—his good reputation. Unlike the child stealing candy from the store, adults cannot return the choice morsels consumed at another’s expense.There is no way to take back words spoken in secret. Proverbs 18:8 (NIV) explains, “The words of a gossip are like choice morsels; they go down to the inmost parts.” They’re spread to the four winds and bring destruction. Guard your tongue and steal no more.